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A devoted wife's performance is bound with her self-worth, leading to an unhealthy obsession with satisfying her husband's needs at the expense of her own identity. Can marriage become too important, and if so, how can Christian couples strike a balance between love and self-sacrifice?

As a couple, Lisa Lakey and her husband found themselves stuck in an endless cycle of arguing, each trying to have the last word, but ultimately realizing that love doesn't demand its own way. By shifting their approach from winning arguments to truly listening to each other, they discovered a more meaningful way to resolve conflicts and deepen their relationship.

When life's "go-to plays" no longer work, it's time to call an audible - making strategic adjustments can salvage relationships. By incorporating three simple yet powerful shifts - calling a timeout, asking for feedback, and running the option - couples can break through plateaus and reignite intimacy and joy in their marriages.

In today's distracted world, humans crave attention and connection, yet our busy lives often leave us feeling like superheroes with no cape to call our own. By acknowledging our limitations and practicing empathy, we can hit the mute button on distractions and offer our loved ones a deeper, more meaningful connection.

Embracing the simplicity of doing nothing together can be a powerful way to nurture a strong marriage, especially during chaotic phases of life. By finding joy in quiet moments with your partner, you can create lasting memories and deepen your connection, as highlighted by Jesus' words "Come away by yourselves to a desolate place and rest a while."

As a marriage navigates the darkest of times, it's easy to lose hope - but holding on to truth and faith can be the difference between drifting apart and being revived. By focusing on personal change, celebrating small victories, and trusting in God's ability to sustain and renew, couples can find the strength to persevere through even the most challenging seasons.

A mother reflects on her experience of "overfunctioning" during snow days with her family, realizing that she may be perpetually overcompensating to keep her household running smoothly, potentially leading to burnout and neglect of selflessness and service. By acknowledging this pattern and seeking help from her husband and God, she encourages readers to examine their own tendencies towards overcompensation and strive for a healthier balance in their marriages and families.

After 40 years of marriage, one couple has learned that traditional gender-defined roles are no longer applicable, and their partnership thrives on mutual support and cooperation. By sharing their unique upbringings and adapting to each other's strengths and weaknesses, they've discovered a new definition of what it means to be a "helper" in marriage.

In a humorous and relatable exploration, author Lisa Lakey shares her personal experience of getting caught up in the "one-up" game with her spouse, only to realize that true fulfillment comes from recognizing their own worth beyond accomplishments. By shifting focus from competition to gratitude, couples can cultivate a more loving and peaceful relationship, as encouraged by biblical principles such as Ephesians 2:8-9.

A husband's brutal outburst at home was met with unexpected kindness from his wife, who treated him with grace despite his wrongdoing, revealing that Christian marriage is built on this principle of treating each other better than they deserve. By embracing Jesus' example of lavishing grace on others, husbands can transform their relationships and reconcile conflicts in a more loving and effective way.

In the context of modern marriage, the concept of "ownership" can be a sensitive topic, but it's rooted in a deeper desire to belong and be united with someone. By embracing this idea in a biblical sense, couples can cultivate a healthy balance between individuality and unity, leading to a more profound and beautiful relationship.

Each individual among you also is to love his own wife even as himself (Eph. 5:33). The longer you are together, the more things you learn about this man or woman that are not very pleasant, not too pretty.

A Christian man's decision to leave his job for full-time ministry sparks a crisis in his marriage, forcing him to re-examine the leadership style of Jesus and prioritize his wife's spiritual growth over his own ambitions. By studying the Bible and seeking guidance from mature Christian women, he ultimately finds a path forward that allows them to enter ministry together as partners.

You have not remembered... (Ezek. 16:43). This is not a day for practical purposes. This is Valentine's Day. And Sam forgot it...

A woman's ideal partner is not one who emulates her, but rather complements her with their unique strengths and qualities, as highlighted in a recent article that explores the importance of embracing men's differences in relationships. By recognizing and valuing each other's gendered strengths, couples can form a more complete and harmonious union, reflecting God's image together.